INNER WOMAN AND INNER MAN
Women and men desire to work together, side by side in true partnership. The problem is that when we come together we do so out of lack rather than fullness. We believe the other is meant to complete or balance us, and seem to be attracted to projections of ourselves, or what we believe we need, instead of to differences that might prove challenging and obligate us to assume full responsibility for ourselves. We expect to be loved for what we do and love others for how they present themselves, rather than for what one is. In the professional field we judge and compete according to predetermined goals and standards, rather than distinguish unique faculties, attributes and unforeseen perspectives. This is no ground for partnership.
We need to redefine partnership, the couple, and equality as the co-existence of difference and uniqueness. Rather than the common belief that genders compliment one another, that they are halves of a whole, and that we must “help” one another, each of us might strive to be whole and authentic.
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